We all knowingly don’t pick our first choice everything for our wedding. Maybe we compromise on the location so our family and childhood friends don’t have to all spring for hotel and airline tickets or we know while we always dreamed of green bridesmaid dresses we know green looks horrible on hubby to be’s sister. However this is as big a compromise as one could make on their wedding. <!–more–> Is anyone who is planning their second wedding now able to identify? - READ MORE.